She's Not Crazy, She's Tired of The Lies

Behind every crazy woman is a man feeding her lies.

For those of you that read my post, Doing Too Much....the saga continues. I get a call from Keisha yesterday about Mark. (Mind you, Keisha is supposed to be leaving Mark alone in all this time, moving on to someone else. But....) Anyhow, yesterday morning, she flipped her lid and went HAM on his ass. (Everything that follows was precipitated by Facebook drama.)

Keisha and  Becky knew that each other existed but neither knew the whole truth. Thanks to our friends at Facebook, all of that changed. Becky, trying to prove something to two other females dealing with Mark, (S&L), changed her profile photo to one of she and Mark. Ruh Roh! Keisha sees this and sends Becky a message. They exchange numbers. They have a conversation in which they exchange all types of information and tell each other the truth about lies Mark has told. Keisha plans to hang out with Mark. She spends the night. (Keisha is normally a very animated person. She was not on Saturday night.) She woke up Sunday morning slapping Mark in the face! The drama escalated from there. There were hammers and body checks and bitch slaps, OH MY. Keisha whooped his ass. (I don't condone physical violence but if you knew them, you'd see the humor. Keisha is like the Jolly Green Giant and Mark is like Pinocchio. She definitely had the physical advantage.)

In summation: Keisha still had feelings for Mark. Though they were supposed to be over. Mark was still sending her text messages about how much he loves her and wants her to come back and how as far as he's concerned, they'll never be over. (I've seen them.) At the same time, he's telling Becky that she's number one and his ex and any other female he may talk to mean nothing. Lies and mixed signals. Tsk. Tsk.

Men are always calling women crazy. "I can't mess with her anymore, she's crazy." "My ex went all crazy on me."  Chances are, she's probably not all that crazy. It's more likely, that said man was lying to her or sending her mixed signals and she pretty much got fed up and overwhelmed with emotion. Emotions are a bitch and when toyed with for too long by someone that you love/trust (for whatever reasons) there comes a breaking point. Keri Hilson said it best...every woman has a breaking point, y'all.